July 27, 20262 Minute Read
Weekly Update for July 26
Welcome to the July 26th weekly roundup 👋 This is your one-stop spot for everything happening in our church family. From kids to adults, small groups to special events, here's how you can get connected over the next seven days. Sunday, July 26th 11:00 am Worship Service - Join us for Sunday service in person or online. 11:00 am - Family Day - Check Facebook for pictures and a video Kids Ministry - Age-specific programming during the service. Monday, July 27th Prayer Gathering - 5:30 pm Thursday, July 30th Praise and Worship Practice - 7:00 pm in the Sanctuary Upcoming Events Partnership Dinner - Sunday, August 2, 5:30-7:00 PM in the Kid’s Room Women’s Painting Party - August 8th from 12-2 at the church Kid’s Back to School Swim Party - August 9th from 4-6 PM at 116 Shadowood Court, Seneca, SC 29678New here? We'd love to connect. Last Week's Message "Marriage is a Covenant Relationship" Pastor Eric | Ephesians 5:22-33 A Christian marriage is fundamentally different than the prevailing culture’s understanding of marriage. You can have a great marriage. But it starts with understanding that marriage symbolizes the covenant relationship between God and His people. Just as Christ sacrificially gave His life for the Church, a husband is called to love his wife; and just as the Church honors Christ, a wife is called to respect her husband. Watch last week’s sermon 👇Watch Online Community Prayer We carry each other through the spiritual practice of prayer. Here's what our community is lifting up this week: 🙏 Partnership Dinner - That the vision is delivered with clarity and conviction. That new connections will be made and new partnerships established. 🙏 Our City – For renewal and revival across our communities. Submit your own prayer request .here Giving Your generosity makes our work in our community possible. We’re so grateful for you. New to our community? No pressure. Today, just be our guest.Give Now Here Stay Connected 📩 Subscribe to this Collection to get these updates delivered directly to your inbox. 📸 Follow us on , Instagram, and .YouTube 💬 Pastoral care or questions? Connect with us here. Services: Sundays at 11:00 AM 3210 Blue Ridge Blvd., West Union, SC 29696 See you soon ☀️
July 24, 20262 Minute Read
Praying for Open Doors
Focus Verse: Colossians 4:3 "At the same time, pray also for us, that God may open to us a door for the word, to declare the mystery of Christ, on account of which I am in prison." Even the apostle Paul asked others to pray that God would open doors for the gospel. He did not rely solely on his own boldness, his theological training, or his remarkable story. He recognized that the opportunities to speak about Jesus are ultimately God-given, and that prayer is how a believer positions himself or herself to see them. This is an enormous relief. You do not have to manufacture conversations or engineer moments. You simply have to be willing and watchful. The sermon closes with a practical challenge: pray each morning for an open door and then ask God for the eyes to see it when it appears. That second part matters enormously. Doors open all around you every day - a colleague mentioning that they are struggling, a neighbor who seems unusually discouraged, a family member who brings up something they are afraid of. These are invitations. Prayer trains your attention so that you recognize them as the gifts they are rather than letting them pass by unnoticed. One person, one conversation, one act of visible hope can change a life. Begin with prayer, and then stay alert. Today's Challenge: Pray a simple, specific prayer this morning: "Lord, give me one opportunity today to show your love to someone, and give me the eyes to see it when you do." Prayer: Father, I do not want to miss the doors you are already opening around me. Train my eyes to see the people you have placed in my path today. Give me courage to walk through the door when it appears, and remind me that you are with me always, to the very end.
July 23, 20262 Minute Read
Gentleness Changes Everything
Focus Verse: Colossians 4:6 "Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person." The sermon makes a point that is easy to miss: the way you share the message is just as important as the message itself. If you win the argument but lose the person, you have lost. That is a hard truth for anyone who cares deeply about biblical truth, because it means that being right is not enough. The posture you bring into a conversation - whether you arrive to score points or to genuinely love the person in front of you - shapes everything that follows. Think about a time when someone confronted you with a truth you needed to hear but did it harshly. Chances are good that you walked away focused on the delivery rather than the content. The same dynamic is at work when you share your faith. Gentleness is not weakness, and respect is not compromise. They are the vehicles that carry truth into a heart that is actually listening. When you lay down the need to win and pick up a genuine desire to serve the person across from you, you become far more persuasive than any argument could make you. Today's Challenge: In your next difficult conversation today - whether about faith or anything else - pause before responding and ask yourself whether your tone reflects gentleness and respect, then adjust before you speak. Prayer: Father, I want to be someone who speaks truth without using it as a weapon. Soften my tone and my heart. Remind me today that the person I am talking to is someone you love deeply, and let that reality shape every word I say.
July 22, 20262 Minute Read
Your Two-Minute Story
Focus Verse: Revelation 12:11 "And they have conquered him by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony, for they loved not their lives even unto death." Your personal story is one of the most powerful tools God has placed in your hands, and yet many followers of Christ have never stopped to organize it. The sermon invites you to think through three simple questions that form the backbone of your testimony. What was your life like before you understood Christ's love for you? What happened - where was the moment you began to trust him? And what difference has he made since then? These three movements are your story, and your story belongs to you alone. Nobody can argue with it. You do not need to be an expert in apologetics to share what you have personally experienced. Think of it this way: if a doctor healed an illness you had carried for years, you would not need a medical degree to tell someone about it at dinner. You would simply tell them what happened and what changed. Your testimony works the same way. The goal is not to impress anyone with theological language but to speak plainly and honestly about a real transformation that took place in a real life - yours. Today's Challenge: Set a timer for two minutes and practice speaking your testimony aloud, using the three-part framework: life before Christ, the moment of trust, and the difference he has made. Prayer: Father, I thank you that my story is worth telling because it is your story written in my life. Help me to know it clearly, speak it simply, and share it without embarrassment. Use my testimony to open doors I would never have opened on my own.
July 21, 20262 Minute Read
Christ as Lord, Not Just Savior
Focus Verse: Philippians 2:10-11 "So that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father." There is a difference between knowing Jesus as the one who saved you and actually submitting to him as Lord of every corner of your life. The word "Lord" carries weight. It means that he is not a consultant you call when life gets hard but a King who governs your priorities, your finances, your relationships, and your daily decisions. Before you can genuinely share your faith with someone else, this verse and 1 Peter 3:15 both call you to look inward and ask: is Christ truly first? This is not about achieving perfection before you are "qualified" to talk about Jesus. It is about the orientation of your heart. When you wake up in the morning, what or who is shaping the agenda of your day? Evangelism that flows out of duty tends to feel hollow and mechanical. Evangelism that flows out of genuine love for a Lord who governs your life carries a completely different kind of weight. People can feel the difference, and so can you. Today's Challenge: Before you check your phone or begin your to-do list this morning, spend two minutes asking Jesus whether there is any area of your life where he is not yet Lord, and surrender that area to him by name. Prayer: Father, I confess that I sometimes treat you as Savior while quietly keeping certain parts of my life under my own control. Today I want to honor you as Lord of every area. Show me what needs to change, and give me the willingness to let it go.
July 20, 20263 Minute Read
Weekly Update
Welcome to the July 19th weekly roundup 👋 This is your one-stop spot for everything happening in our church family. From kids to adults, small groups to special events, here's how you can get connected over the next seven days. Sunday, July 19th 11:00 am Worship Service - Join us for Sunday service in person or online. Kids Ministry - Age-specific programming during the service. Monday, July 20th Prayer Gathering - 5:30 pm Tuesday, July 21st Leadership Meeting - 6:30 pm Wednesday, July 22nd Community Mental Health Workshop - 6:00 pm in the Sanctuary Thursday, July 23rd Praise and Worship Practice - 7:00 pm in the Sanctuary Saturday, July 25th Family Day Set-Up - 10 AM - 12 PM Upcoming Events Family Fun Day - Sunday, July 26th at 11:00 am Partnership Dinner - Sunday, August 2, 5:30-7:00 PM in the Kid’s Room Women’s Painting Party - August 8th from 12-2 at the church Kid’s Back to School Swim Party - August 9th from 4-6 PM at 116 Shadowood Court, Seneca, SC 29678New here? We'd love to connect. Last Week's Message "The Necessity of Evangelism" Pastor Eric | 1 Peter 3:15 Evangelism is not an optional activity but the natural overflow of the hope we have in Christ. Living out 1 Peter 3:15 in daily life isn't about memorizing a list of specific Scriptures or looking for arguments. Instead, it is about cultivating a lifestyle that naturally invites curiosity and being ready to respond with humility when people ask about our faith. Watch last week’s sermon 👇Watch Online Community Prayer We carry each other through the spiritual practice of prayer. Here's what our community is lifting up this week: 🙏 Family Day - That we will reach families that are far from God so that they may find Hope in Christ. That new connections will be made and that everyone has fun. 🙏 Our City – For renewal and revival across our communities. Submit your own prayer request .here Giving Your generosity makes our work in our community possible. We’re so grateful for you. New to our community? No pressure. Today, just be our guest.Give Now Here Stay Connected 📩 Subscribe to this Collection to get these updates delivered directly to your inbox. 📸 Follow us on , Instagram, and .YouTube 💬 Pastoral care or questions? Connect with us here. Services: Sundays at 11:00 AM 3210 Blue Ridge Blvd., West Union, SC 29696 See you soon ☀️
July 20, 20262 Minute Read
Hope Visible to Others
Focus Verse: 1 Peter 3:15 "But in your hearts regard Christ the Lord as holy, always being prepared to make a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you; yet do it with gentleness and respect." You have probably heard this verse many times, but consider the hidden assumption buried inside it. Peter assumes that the people around you will actually ask about your hope. That only happens if they can see something worth asking about. The question this verse places before you is not "Do you know the right words?" but "Is there something visible in your life that points to Jesus?" Think about the people you will encounter today - a coworker, a neighbor, someone in the checkout line. They are watching how you handle pressure, disappointment, and uncertainty. When you carry peace in situations that would unravel most people, you become a living question mark in the best possible sense. Your life becomes a sign that points somewhere. You do not need a theology degree to do that. You simply need to let what is genuinely inside you show on the outside. Today's Challenge: Ask yourself honestly whether the people closest to you have ever seen your hope on display, and identify one moment today where you can let it show rather than hide it. Prayer: Father, I want my life to point to you rather than blend into the fear and anxiety around me. Cultivate real, visible hope in me today. Give me the courage to let it show in how I speak, serve, and respond to whatever comes my way.
July 16, 20262 Minute Read
Disciplines That Shape the Whole Life
Focus Verse: Hebrews 12:11 "For the moment all discipline seems painful rather than pleasant, but later it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it." One of the most practical truths in the sermon is this: when you exercise spiritual disciplines consistently, the effect does not stay contained to your quiet time. It spills outward into every relationship and every responsibility you carry. It changes how you speak to your spouse. It changes how you raise your children. It shapes how you handle your money and how you spend your hours. And perhaps most importantly, it determines how you hold yourself together when suffering arrives uninvited. Hebrews is honest about the cost. Discipline is painful in the moment. But the writer refuses to stop there. He pushes you forward to the harvest: the peaceful fruit of righteousness that comes to those who endure the training. Think about the spiritual disciplines available to you, things like studying the Bible, prayer, fasting, silence before God, confession, gathering with other believers, and acts of service. These are not religious obligations designed to make you feel guilty. They are the exercises that create space for God to do his most transforming work in your interior life, work that then radiates outward to everyone around you. Today's Challenge: Think of one relationship in your life, a marriage, a friendship, or a parenting role, and consider how a deeper spiritual discipline this week could make you more present, more patient, and more Christlike in that relationship. Prayer: Father, I want the fruit that comes from training, not just the idea of it. Let my time with you today produce something real that the people closest to me can actually see and feel. Do your work in me from the inside out.
July 16, 20262 Minute Read
Intentionality Is Not Optional
Focus Verse: 1 Corinthians 9:24-25 "Do you not know that in a race all the runners run, but only one receives the prize? So run that you may obtain it. Every athlete exercises self-control in all things. They do it to receive a perishable wreath, but we an imperishable." Nobody shows up at the gym by accident. You plan it. You pack your bag, drive there, walk in, and decide what part of the body you are going to work on that day. Every step is a deliberate choice. That is what intentionality looks like in the physical world, and spiritual maturity demands the same thing. Paul's point to the Corinthians is almost startling: athletes pour years of disciplined effort into a prize that will eventually fade and collect dust, but you are running toward something that can never be taken from you. The sermon's central word is worth sitting with today. Intentionality. Spiritual growth does not happen by accident, by osmosis, or by sitting in a pew once a week hoping something sticks. It is a deliberate lifestyle choice, made in the small moments that no one else sees. The morning you open your Bible before your phone. The lunch break you spend in prayer instead of scrolling. These quiet, unseen decisions are the training sessions that shape your soul. Today's Challenge: Choose one spiritual discipline, whether prayer, Bible reading, journaling, or fasting, and schedule a specific time for it each day this week as a non-negotiable appointment. Prayer: Father, I confess I have often been passive about my own spiritual growth. Today I choose to be intentional. Help me treat time with you as the most important appointment of my day, and give me the consistency to keep it.
July 15, 20262 Minute Read
Training Takes Real Effort
Focus Verse: 1 Timothy 4:8 "For while bodily training is of some value, godliness is of value in every way, as it holds promise for the present life and also for the life to come." There is a reason Paul uses athletic language to describe the spiritual life. The word translated "train" in this passage comes from the same Greek root that gives us the word gymnasium. It carries the idea of rigorous, disciplined, sometimes painful effort. Think about what it actually costs an athlete to compete. Hours of practice, sore muscles, early mornings, and choices made in private that nobody ever applauds. The medal does not appear without the preparation. Your spiritual life works the same way. Christlikeness does not drift into your heart while you are comfortable. It is forged through consistent, deliberate practice. You do not accidentally become a person of deep prayer any more than a soccer player accidentally runs for ninety minutes at full speed. The good news Paul places right beside the demand is this: the reward is not temporary. Physical training benefits your body for a few decades. Godliness holds promise for this life and for the life to come. The effort you invest today in your soul is the only effort that travels with you into eternity. Today's Challenge: Write down what your current spiritual training looks like on a typical week, and honestly note where the gaps are. Prayer: Father, I want to stop coasting and start training. I ask you to stir a holy discipline in me that is willing to push past comfort for the sake of knowing you more deeply. Show me where to start.
July 13, 20262 Minute Read
Weekly Update
Welcome to the weekly roundup 👋 This is your one-stop spot for everything happening in our church family. From kids to adults, small groups to special events, here's how you can get connected over the next seven days. Sunday, July 12th 11:00 am Worship Service - Join us for Sunday service in person or online. Kids Ministry - Age-specific programming during the service. Monday, July 13th Prayer Gathering - 5:30 pm Thursday, July 16th Grief Support Group - 6:00 pm in the Kids Praise and Worship Practice - 7:00 pm in the Sanctuary Upcoming Events Family Fun Day - Sunday, July 26th at 11:00 amNew here? We'd love to connect. This Week's Message "Shaping Your Soul Through Daily Intention" Pastor Eric | 1 Timothy 4:7-8 Spiritual Growth Requires Spiritual Intention. We live out our faith in this physical world with our physical bodies. This is why it’s so important to understand how to be a Christian. Paul’s call to his protégé Timothy is a message for all of us: “Train yourself for godliness”. It brings peace and purpose to our current daily lives while securing our eternal destiny. Watch last week’s sermon 👇Watch Online Community Prayer We carry each other through the spiritual practice of prayer. Here's what our community is lifting up this week: 🙏 The Palmer Family – Grieving the loss of Brad Palmer. Praying for comfort, peace and strength for the family. 🙏 Our City – For renewal and revival across our communities. Submit your own prayer request .here Giving Your generosity makes our work in our community possible. We’re so grateful for you. New to our community? No pressure. Today, just be our guest.Give Now Here Stay Connected 📩 Subscribe to this Collection to get these updates delivered directly to your inbox. 📸 Follow us on , Instagram, and .YouTube 💬 Pastoral care or questions? Connect with us here. Services: Sundays at 11:00 AM 3210 Blue Ridge Blvd., West Union, SC 29696 See you soon ☀️
July 10, 20262 Minute Read
Release What You Are Carrying
Focus Verse: Matthew 6:12 "And forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors." Notice that Jesus links two things together in a single sentence - receiving forgiveness from God and extending forgiveness to others. He does not let you separate them. You cannot maintain a strong vertical relationship with God while holding unresolved bitterness toward the people around you. The cross connects both directions. That is not a comfortable truth, but it is a freeing one. Unforgiveness is heavy. It accumulates quietly - a comment someone made at work, a wound that never fully healed, a disappointment that replays in your mind. When you let those things build up without releasing them, they do not stay contained. They affect your peace, your relationships, and even your capacity to receive grace from God. The daily practice of writing down the initials of people who have frustrated you - and then intentionally releasing them to God - is not a small exercise. It is the kind of daily maintenance that keeps bitterness from taking root. You release them not because what they did was acceptable, but because Jesus released you. Today's Challenge: Write down the initials of one or two people you are holding something against, pray a brief prayer releasing that person to God, and then put the paper away or throw it out as a physical act of letting go. Prayer: Father, I confess that I have held onto things I need to release. Forgive me where I have fallen short, and give me the grace to extend that same forgiveness to others. I release these people and situations to you today.
August 12, 20268 Minute Read
Kids Discipleship
Honestly, even as a pastor, I struggled to disciple my kids because discipling from toddler to adult requires a different Bible for every new season of growth. So the question is, what is the best Bible for them at that stage, and there are so many choices? Then there is what you teach and what approach or method you use at each stage of life. Throughout the years, I have researched these questions many times. A few times I found things that were helpful; most of the time I became frustrated. Frustrated because there were so many choices and no clear answers or pathways I could follow. So I would put it aside and end up coming back to it again and again without ever really starting discipleship training with my kids. Yes, I overthink things. Yes, I do better with a clear plan laid out. Yes, I'm a pastor, and yes, I have struggled with this. Maybe you are facing the same challenges as me along with the same frustrations. You love your kids. You want them to grow up and learn to love God and love others. You want them to live for Jesus, experience His love, mercy, and grace, and ultimately spend eternity with Him. But you don’t know what Bible to buy, and you don’t know where to start. You don’t know what to teach or even what should be taught at the different stages of growth. So you put it off, and you put it off, and before you know it, they have grown up. But we can change things starting today because God designed the home to be the first and most powerful classroom of faith. I am working to put together a family resource of Bibles and catechism materials, articles, etc. In the meantime, here are a few resources that I hope you will find helpful. ✝️ Catechism 0–5 Years Old (Early Childhood & Preschool) At this stage, catechism focuses on foundational concepts of God’s love, creation, and grace through simple Q&A, songs, and storybooks rather than heavy memory work. The Kid's Catechism(Holy Joys / Wesleyan Tradition) Focus: Simplified Questions & Answers for ages 2–5. Highlights: Designed specifically as the entry level for young toddlers, answering essential questions about God, creation, and Jesus in short, memorable sentences (e.g., "Who made you? God made me."). Our Faith for Little Ones / Nazarene Early Childhood Discipleship Focus: Pre-K foundational truths of grace and God's love. Highlights: Uses story-based lessons and basic catechism questions emphasizing prevenient grace—the idea that God loves and pursues us even before we know Him. 6–9 Years Old (Early Elementary) In this age range, children are ready for structured Q&A formats that introduce core doctrines, the Ten Commandments, the Creed, and Wesleyan understandings of grace. The Young Disciples' Catechism(Holy Joys / Arminian-Wesleyan) Focus: 81 Questions & Weekly Memory Verses for ages 6–12. Highlights: Specifically crafted from a Wesleyan-Arminian framework. It structures catechism questions around God's character, salvation, holy living, and joyful obedience, making it ideal for family devotions or Sunday school. My Faith: A Catechism for Kids (Foundry Publishing / Church of the Nazarene) Focus: Interactive Student Workbook & Catechism Guide. Highlights: Covers essential Christian doctrines and the 16 Articles of Faith through engaging activity sheets, Q&A memory work, and age-appropriate discussions on sanctification and Christian living. Garden of Grace Curriculum (The KidMin Creatives) Focus: 16-Week Catechetical Teaching on the Articles of Faith. Highlights: Breaks down core Wesleyan beliefs (grace, repentance, holiness, the sacraments) using child-friendly illustrations, games, and weekly memory prompts. 7–12 Years Old (Older Elementary & Preteens) Preteens can handle deeper theological concepts, historical creeds, confirmation prep, and understanding the means of grace (prayer, Scripture, communion, baptism). A Catechism of Christian Faith and Doctrine(Seedbed / Global Methodist Church) Focus: 77 Questions and Answers on Historic & Wesleyan Beliefs. Highlights: Concise and robust catechism published by Seedbed.Designed for upper elementary, youth, and family grounding in the Apostles' Creed, Means of Grace, Articles of Religion, and the Lord's Prayer. Confirm / Wesleyan Confirmation & Catechism (Cokesbury / United Methodist / Global Methodist) Focus: Preteen Confirmation & Catechesis (Ages 10–12+). Highlights: A complete curriculum guiding preteens through the story of Scripture, Christian doctrine, Wesleyan history (John Wesley’s rule of life), and personal commitment to Christ. A Wesleyan Catechism (Ten Commandments, Articles of Religion, Lord's Prayer) Focus: Classical Wesleyan Q&A based on John Wesley's writings. Highlights: Focuses on the primary texts Wesley emphasized: the Ten Commandments (duty to God and neighbor), the Apostles' Creed, the Lord's Prayer, and the Sacraments. High-level preteens (ages 10–12) can study these alongside parent/teacher guides. 13+ Years Old (Teens & Young Adults) A Catechism of Christian Faith and Doctrine(Seedbed / Global Methodist / Wesleyan) Focus: 77 Questions and Answers on Core & Wesleyan Doctrine Highlights: Concise yet doctrinally rich, this guide works exceptionally well for teens. It covers the Apostles' Creed, the Lord’s Prayer, the Ten Commandments, and the Wesleyan understanding of grace (prevenient, justifying, and sanctifying). Absolute Basics of the Wesleyan Way (Seedbed - Phil Tallon & Justus Hunter) Focus: Interactive Teen & Student Catechism Course Highlights: Designed specifically for youth and young adults, this small-group and individual guide uses videos, short readings, and Q&A formats to break down core Christian beliefs through a distinctly Wesleyan lens. The Class Meeting / Small Group Discipleship Guides (Kevin M. Watson) Focus: Wesleyan Small Group Discipleship & Accountability Highlights: Moves beyond simple Q&A head-knowledge into heart transformation. Grounded in John Wesley's classic "class meetings," it helps teens learn how to watch over one another in love and track where God is working in their daily lives. 📖 Recommended Bibles 0–5 Years Old (Early Childhood & Preschool) At this stage, children benefit most from storybook and devotional Bibles that present essential themes through clear visuals and short, simple narratives. My First Hands-On Bible(NLT) Format: Storybook / Activity Bible Highlights: Designed specifically for ages 3–6, this book uses simplified NLT text alongside interactive prompts (hand motions, questions, simple crafts) that engage energetic toddlers and preschoolers during reading. The Jesus Storybook Bible(Storybook) Format: Illustrated Storybook Bible Highlights: While not a word-for-word translation, it is published alongside standard NIV/NLT resources as a primary recommendation for preschoolers. It focuses on how every story throughout the Old and New Testaments points to Jesus. NIV Little Kids' Big Story Bible(NIV) Format: Storybook Bible Highlights: Features short, simple retellings of 30+ key stories using easy-to-understand language and vibrant artwork crafted specifically to keep young attention spans engaged. 6–9 Years Old (Early Elementary & Early Readers) Children in this group are transitioning into independent reading and can begin moving from storybooks to full-text Bibles with engaging supplemental features. Hands-On Bible(NLT) Format: Full-Text Activity Bible Highlights: Uses the full NLT text packed with graphics, fun facts, "do-it" activities, science experiments, and crafts that help kinesthetic learners understand and apply biblical concepts. NIV Adventure Bible(NIV) (One of my favorites) Format: Full-Text Study Bible Highlights: Widely considered the gold standard for elementary-aged readers. It includes full-color feature pages like Life in Bible Times, Words to Treasure (for verse memory), and People in Bible Times profiles. NIV Boys/Girls Big Dreams, Big Prayers Bible(NIV) Format: Devotional / Full-Text Bible Highlights: Combines the complete NIV Scripture text with short daily devotions and prayer prompts that help early readers begin developing a daily Bible-reading habit. 7–12 Years Old (Older Elementary & Preteens) Preteens benefit from study tools that answer deeper questions, provide historical context, and foster personal reflection. NIV Kids' Visual Study Bible(NIV) Format: Illustrated Study Bible Highlights: Ideal for visual learners, this full-text NIV Bible is loaded with over 700 infographics, photos, maps, and study notes directly alongside the verses. NLT Student Life Application Study Bible(NLT) Format: Full-Text Study Bible Highlights: A great bridge for upper-elementary kids and preteens (ages 10+) stepping into deeper study. It provides application notes, character profiles, and real-world Q&As grounded in the accessible NLT text. NIV Investigator's Holy Bible(NIV) Format: Full-Text Interactive Study Bible Highlights: Uses a detective-and-discovery theme with "evidence files," Q&As, and background context to help preteens explore the historical truth of the Bible for themselves. Beautiful Word Coloring Bible for Girls (NIV, Leathersoft, Teal) Focus: Creative Engagement & Scripture Memorization through Visual Art for Preteens (Ages 8–12). Highlights: Combines the full NIV text with over 500 ready-to-color verse illustrations, thick white paper, and wide margins, encouraging girls to reflect on and memorize God's Word through art. 13+ Years Old (Teens & Young Adults) NLT Teen Life Application Study Bible(NLT) Format: Full-Text Teen Study Bible Highlights: Widely recognized as one of the best life-application Bibles for teenagers. It dives deep into real-world issues (mental health, peer pressure, identity, relationships) while offering clear verse-by-verse commentary grounded in the accessible NLT translation. NIV Student Bible(NIV) Format: Full-Text Guided Study Bible Highlights: Edited by Philip Yancey and Tim Stafford, this Bible includes the 3-Track Reading Plan, book introductions, "Highlights" that explain tricky passages, and historical backgrounds designed to build independent, lifelong study habits. The Jesus Bible(NIV) Format: Theological / Devotional Study Bible Highlights: Excellent for high schoolers and college students looking for deep narrative study. It features extensive essays, study notes, and journaling margins that reveal how Christ is woven throughout both the Old and New Testaments. Article with Graphic for Each Age Group Practical Ways to Teach Your Children about God at Every Age,” Woman of Noble Character, May 1, 2019. Download the article here.
July 27, 20262 Minute Read
Weekly Update for July 26
Welcome to the July 26th weekly roundup 👋 This is your one-stop spot for everything happening in our church family. From kids to adults, small groups to special events, here's how you can get connected over the next seven days. Sunday, July 26th 11:00 am Worship Service - Join us for Sunday service in person or online. 11:00 am - Family Day - Check Facebook for pictures and a video Kids Ministry - Age-specific programming during the service. Monday, July 27th Prayer Gathering - 5:30 pm Thursday, July 30th Praise and Worship Practice - 7:00 pm in the Sanctuary Upcoming Events Partnership Dinner - Sunday, August 2, 5:30-7:00 PM in the Kid’s Room Women’s Painting Party - August 8th from 12-2 at the church Kid’s Back to School Swim Party - August 9th from 4-6 PM at 116 Shadowood Court, Seneca, SC 29678New here? We'd love to connect. Last Week's Message "Marriage is a Covenant Relationship" Pastor Eric | Ephesians 5:22-33 A Christian marriage is fundamentally different than the prevailing culture’s understanding of marriage. You can have a great marriage. But it starts with understanding that marriage symbolizes the covenant relationship between God and His people. Just as Christ sacrificially gave His life for the Church, a husband is called to love his wife; and just as the Church honors Christ, a wife is called to respect her husband. Watch last week’s sermon 👇Watch Online Community Prayer We carry each other through the spiritual practice of prayer. Here's what our community is lifting up this week: 🙏 Partnership Dinner - That the vision is delivered with clarity and conviction. That new connections will be made and new partnerships established. 🙏 Our City – For renewal and revival across our communities. Submit your own prayer request .here Giving Your generosity makes our work in our community possible. We’re so grateful for you. New to our community? No pressure. Today, just be our guest.Give Now Here Stay Connected 📩 Subscribe to this Collection to get these updates delivered directly to your inbox. 📸 Follow us on , Instagram, and .YouTube 💬 Pastoral care or questions? Connect with us here. Services: Sundays at 11:00 AM 3210 Blue Ridge Blvd., West Union, SC 29696 See you soon ☀️
July 24, 20262 Minute Read
Praying for Open Doors
Focus Verse: Colossians 4:3 "At the same time, pray also for us, that God may open to us a door for the word, to declare the mystery of Christ, on account of which I am in prison." Even the apostle Paul asked others to pray that God would open doors for the gospel. He did not rely solely on his own boldness, his theological training, or his remarkable story. He recognized that the opportunities to speak about Jesus are ultimately God-given, and that prayer is how a believer positions himself or herself to see them. This is an enormous relief. You do not have to manufacture conversations or engineer moments. You simply have to be willing and watchful. The sermon closes with a practical challenge: pray each morning for an open door and then ask God for the eyes to see it when it appears. That second part matters enormously. Doors open all around you every day - a colleague mentioning that they are struggling, a neighbor who seems unusually discouraged, a family member who brings up something they are afraid of. These are invitations. Prayer trains your attention so that you recognize them as the gifts they are rather than letting them pass by unnoticed. One person, one conversation, one act of visible hope can change a life. Begin with prayer, and then stay alert. Today's Challenge: Pray a simple, specific prayer this morning: "Lord, give me one opportunity today to show your love to someone, and give me the eyes to see it when you do." Prayer: Father, I do not want to miss the doors you are already opening around me. Train my eyes to see the people you have placed in my path today. Give me courage to walk through the door when it appears, and remind me that you are with me always, to the very end.
July 23, 20262 Minute Read
Gentleness Changes Everything
Focus Verse: Colossians 4:6 "Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person." The sermon makes a point that is easy to miss: the way you share the message is just as important as the message itself. If you win the argument but lose the person, you have lost. That is a hard truth for anyone who cares deeply about biblical truth, because it means that being right is not enough. The posture you bring into a conversation - whether you arrive to score points or to genuinely love the person in front of you - shapes everything that follows. Think about a time when someone confronted you with a truth you needed to hear but did it harshly. Chances are good that you walked away focused on the delivery rather than the content. The same dynamic is at work when you share your faith. Gentleness is not weakness, and respect is not compromise. They are the vehicles that carry truth into a heart that is actually listening. When you lay down the need to win and pick up a genuine desire to serve the person across from you, you become far more persuasive than any argument could make you. Today's Challenge: In your next difficult conversation today - whether about faith or anything else - pause before responding and ask yourself whether your tone reflects gentleness and respect, then adjust before you speak. Prayer: Father, I want to be someone who speaks truth without using it as a weapon. Soften my tone and my heart. Remind me today that the person I am talking to is someone you love deeply, and let that reality shape every word I say.
July 22, 20262 Minute Read
Your Two-Minute Story
Focus Verse: Revelation 12:11 "And they have conquered him by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony, for they loved not their lives even unto death." Your personal story is one of the most powerful tools God has placed in your hands, and yet many followers of Christ have never stopped to organize it. The sermon invites you to think through three simple questions that form the backbone of your testimony. What was your life like before you understood Christ's love for you? What happened - where was the moment you began to trust him? And what difference has he made since then? These three movements are your story, and your story belongs to you alone. Nobody can argue with it. You do not need to be an expert in apologetics to share what you have personally experienced. Think of it this way: if a doctor healed an illness you had carried for years, you would not need a medical degree to tell someone about it at dinner. You would simply tell them what happened and what changed. Your testimony works the same way. The goal is not to impress anyone with theological language but to speak plainly and honestly about a real transformation that took place in a real life - yours. Today's Challenge: Set a timer for two minutes and practice speaking your testimony aloud, using the three-part framework: life before Christ, the moment of trust, and the difference he has made. Prayer: Father, I thank you that my story is worth telling because it is your story written in my life. Help me to know it clearly, speak it simply, and share it without embarrassment. Use my testimony to open doors I would never have opened on my own.
July 21, 20262 Minute Read
Christ as Lord, Not Just Savior
Focus Verse: Philippians 2:10-11 "So that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father." There is a difference between knowing Jesus as the one who saved you and actually submitting to him as Lord of every corner of your life. The word "Lord" carries weight. It means that he is not a consultant you call when life gets hard but a King who governs your priorities, your finances, your relationships, and your daily decisions. Before you can genuinely share your faith with someone else, this verse and 1 Peter 3:15 both call you to look inward and ask: is Christ truly first? This is not about achieving perfection before you are "qualified" to talk about Jesus. It is about the orientation of your heart. When you wake up in the morning, what or who is shaping the agenda of your day? Evangelism that flows out of duty tends to feel hollow and mechanical. Evangelism that flows out of genuine love for a Lord who governs your life carries a completely different kind of weight. People can feel the difference, and so can you. Today's Challenge: Before you check your phone or begin your to-do list this morning, spend two minutes asking Jesus whether there is any area of your life where he is not yet Lord, and surrender that area to him by name. Prayer: Father, I confess that I sometimes treat you as Savior while quietly keeping certain parts of my life under my own control. Today I want to honor you as Lord of every area. Show me what needs to change, and give me the willingness to let it go.
July 20, 20263 Minute Read
Weekly Update
Welcome to the July 19th weekly roundup 👋 This is your one-stop spot for everything happening in our church family. From kids to adults, small groups to special events, here's how you can get connected over the next seven days. Sunday, July 19th 11:00 am Worship Service - Join us for Sunday service in person or online. Kids Ministry - Age-specific programming during the service. Monday, July 20th Prayer Gathering - 5:30 pm Tuesday, July 21st Leadership Meeting - 6:30 pm Wednesday, July 22nd Community Mental Health Workshop - 6:00 pm in the Sanctuary Thursday, July 23rd Praise and Worship Practice - 7:00 pm in the Sanctuary Saturday, July 25th Family Day Set-Up - 10 AM - 12 PM Upcoming Events Family Fun Day - Sunday, July 26th at 11:00 am Partnership Dinner - Sunday, August 2, 5:30-7:00 PM in the Kid’s Room Women’s Painting Party - August 8th from 12-2 at the church Kid’s Back to School Swim Party - August 9th from 4-6 PM at 116 Shadowood Court, Seneca, SC 29678New here? We'd love to connect. Last Week's Message "The Necessity of Evangelism" Pastor Eric | 1 Peter 3:15 Evangelism is not an optional activity but the natural overflow of the hope we have in Christ. Living out 1 Peter 3:15 in daily life isn't about memorizing a list of specific Scriptures or looking for arguments. Instead, it is about cultivating a lifestyle that naturally invites curiosity and being ready to respond with humility when people ask about our faith. Watch last week’s sermon 👇Watch Online Community Prayer We carry each other through the spiritual practice of prayer. Here's what our community is lifting up this week: 🙏 Family Day - That we will reach families that are far from God so that they may find Hope in Christ. That new connections will be made and that everyone has fun. 🙏 Our City – For renewal and revival across our communities. Submit your own prayer request .here Giving Your generosity makes our work in our community possible. We’re so grateful for you. New to our community? No pressure. Today, just be our guest.Give Now Here Stay Connected 📩 Subscribe to this Collection to get these updates delivered directly to your inbox. 📸 Follow us on , Instagram, and .YouTube 💬 Pastoral care or questions? Connect with us here. Services: Sundays at 11:00 AM 3210 Blue Ridge Blvd., West Union, SC 29696 See you soon ☀️
July 20, 20262 Minute Read
Hope Visible to Others
Focus Verse: 1 Peter 3:15 "But in your hearts regard Christ the Lord as holy, always being prepared to make a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you; yet do it with gentleness and respect." You have probably heard this verse many times, but consider the hidden assumption buried inside it. Peter assumes that the people around you will actually ask about your hope. That only happens if they can see something worth asking about. The question this verse places before you is not "Do you know the right words?" but "Is there something visible in your life that points to Jesus?" Think about the people you will encounter today - a coworker, a neighbor, someone in the checkout line. They are watching how you handle pressure, disappointment, and uncertainty. When you carry peace in situations that would unravel most people, you become a living question mark in the best possible sense. Your life becomes a sign that points somewhere. You do not need a theology degree to do that. You simply need to let what is genuinely inside you show on the outside. Today's Challenge: Ask yourself honestly whether the people closest to you have ever seen your hope on display, and identify one moment today where you can let it show rather than hide it. Prayer: Father, I want my life to point to you rather than blend into the fear and anxiety around me. Cultivate real, visible hope in me today. Give me the courage to let it show in how I speak, serve, and respond to whatever comes my way.
July 16, 20262 Minute Read
Disciplines That Shape the Whole Life
Focus Verse: Hebrews 12:11 "For the moment all discipline seems painful rather than pleasant, but later it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it." One of the most practical truths in the sermon is this: when you exercise spiritual disciplines consistently, the effect does not stay contained to your quiet time. It spills outward into every relationship and every responsibility you carry. It changes how you speak to your spouse. It changes how you raise your children. It shapes how you handle your money and how you spend your hours. And perhaps most importantly, it determines how you hold yourself together when suffering arrives uninvited. Hebrews is honest about the cost. Discipline is painful in the moment. But the writer refuses to stop there. He pushes you forward to the harvest: the peaceful fruit of righteousness that comes to those who endure the training. Think about the spiritual disciplines available to you, things like studying the Bible, prayer, fasting, silence before God, confession, gathering with other believers, and acts of service. These are not religious obligations designed to make you feel guilty. They are the exercises that create space for God to do his most transforming work in your interior life, work that then radiates outward to everyone around you. Today's Challenge: Think of one relationship in your life, a marriage, a friendship, or a parenting role, and consider how a deeper spiritual discipline this week could make you more present, more patient, and more Christlike in that relationship. Prayer: Father, I want the fruit that comes from training, not just the idea of it. Let my time with you today produce something real that the people closest to me can actually see and feel. Do your work in me from the inside out.
July 16, 20262 Minute Read
Intentionality Is Not Optional
Focus Verse: 1 Corinthians 9:24-25 "Do you not know that in a race all the runners run, but only one receives the prize? So run that you may obtain it. Every athlete exercises self-control in all things. They do it to receive a perishable wreath, but we an imperishable." Nobody shows up at the gym by accident. You plan it. You pack your bag, drive there, walk in, and decide what part of the body you are going to work on that day. Every step is a deliberate choice. That is what intentionality looks like in the physical world, and spiritual maturity demands the same thing. Paul's point to the Corinthians is almost startling: athletes pour years of disciplined effort into a prize that will eventually fade and collect dust, but you are running toward something that can never be taken from you. The sermon's central word is worth sitting with today. Intentionality. Spiritual growth does not happen by accident, by osmosis, or by sitting in a pew once a week hoping something sticks. It is a deliberate lifestyle choice, made in the small moments that no one else sees. The morning you open your Bible before your phone. The lunch break you spend in prayer instead of scrolling. These quiet, unseen decisions are the training sessions that shape your soul. Today's Challenge: Choose one spiritual discipline, whether prayer, Bible reading, journaling, or fasting, and schedule a specific time for it each day this week as a non-negotiable appointment. Prayer: Father, I confess I have often been passive about my own spiritual growth. Today I choose to be intentional. Help me treat time with you as the most important appointment of my day, and give me the consistency to keep it.
July 15, 20262 Minute Read
Training Takes Real Effort
Focus Verse: 1 Timothy 4:8 "For while bodily training is of some value, godliness is of value in every way, as it holds promise for the present life and also for the life to come." There is a reason Paul uses athletic language to describe the spiritual life. The word translated "train" in this passage comes from the same Greek root that gives us the word gymnasium. It carries the idea of rigorous, disciplined, sometimes painful effort. Think about what it actually costs an athlete to compete. Hours of practice, sore muscles, early mornings, and choices made in private that nobody ever applauds. The medal does not appear without the preparation. Your spiritual life works the same way. Christlikeness does not drift into your heart while you are comfortable. It is forged through consistent, deliberate practice. You do not accidentally become a person of deep prayer any more than a soccer player accidentally runs for ninety minutes at full speed. The good news Paul places right beside the demand is this: the reward is not temporary. Physical training benefits your body for a few decades. Godliness holds promise for this life and for the life to come. The effort you invest today in your soul is the only effort that travels with you into eternity. Today's Challenge: Write down what your current spiritual training looks like on a typical week, and honestly note where the gaps are. Prayer: Father, I want to stop coasting and start training. I ask you to stir a holy discipline in me that is willing to push past comfort for the sake of knowing you more deeply. Show me where to start.
July 13, 20262 Minute Read
Cutting Through the Noise
Focus Verse: 1 Timothy 4:7 "Have nothing to do with irreverent, silly myths. Rather train yourself for godliness." Before Paul ever talks about spiritual training, he talks about subtraction. That order matters. You cannot build godly habits on a foundation cluttered with constant noise. Think about your own morning for a moment. Before your feet even hit the floor, how many notifications have already pulled your attention in five different directions? The enemy does not always come with a direct attack. Sometimes he simply keeps you so busy, so distracted, so entertained that you never quiet down enough to hear God at all. Paul's warning to Timothy about "pointless and silly myths" was a warning about the cultural noise of his day, and it applies with even more force to yours. Social media arguments, political outrage, and the endless scroll are the myths of your generation. They feel urgent, but they produce nothing eternal. Spiritual growth begins with elimination. You have to say no to some things so you can say a full yes to God. Today's Challenge: Identify one specific source of digital noise in your life today, and deliberately set it aside for one hour to sit in silence before God. Prayer: Father, I confess that I have let the noise of the world crowd out your voice. Today I choose to cut through the clutter and turn my attention toward you. Give me the courage to guard my mind and protect the space where you speak.
July 13, 20262 Minute Read
Family Fun Day
Summer is Here 😎 Family Fun Day is coming up on Sunday, July 26th and we could not be more excited! Get ready for an exciting Sunday together! Bring a friend and join us as we kick off our brand new family series “Family Life” during the 11:00 AM service.... The fun doesn’t stop there! Stick around right after for an awesome time of food, fellowship, and fun in the water for everyone! Don’t forget your towel!👌 Bring your favorite potluck dish to share 🌭, we can’t wait to enjoy it together! **There will be a sign up sheet located at the Guest Services table. ** Our Sunday Kids Church curriculum kicks off with a brand new 8-week series, “Back-to-School Survival Guide.” The kids will learn how to make this school year the best ever as they see how to listen and hold on to instruction. “I also want to spotlight 🤩 our incredible Hope Kidz team, who have faithfully served Sunday after Sunday! Thank you for making disciples… who make disciples in Hope Kidz!” - Pastor Eric Do you have a passion for kids and a heart for helping them grow in their faith? Do you enjoy teaching children about Jesus and making disciples? Hope Kidz would love to have you join our team! If you're interested in serving or would like to learn more, please reach out to Valerie for additional information.Sign up to join Hope Kidz Coming up 🔔
August 19, 20262 Minute Read
Unity Is Where Blessing Lives
Focus Verse: Psalm 133:1 "Behold, how good and pleasant it is when brothers dwell in unity!" Unity is not just a nice idea. According to Psalm 133, it is the place where God commands His blessing. That word "commands" is striking. God does not merely offer blessing where there is unity. He directs it there. This means division is not just relationally painful. It is spiritually costly. When the enemy works to keep believers fighting over denominations, political loyalties, and racial identities, he is working to cut off the flow of what God intended to pour out. You have likely felt the weight of division in your lifetime. Perhaps it was a church split, a falling out between believers, or the slow drift of relationships that once felt strong. Division leaves a hollow feeling because it is working against the very design of God for His people. But unity, even when it is hard-won, produces something different. It produces an atmosphere where God shows up and where people notice. The world is watching the church, and one of the most compelling testimonies you can offer a divided culture is the sight of people who have every reason to be separated choosing to remain together under the cross. Today's Challenge: Ask God to show you one area of your heart where division has taken root - whether toward a person, a denomination, or a culture - and surrender that specific thing to Him today. Prayer: Father, I confess that I have sometimes valued being right over being unified. Teach me to prize what You prize, and let my life be a place where Your blessing flows freely. Amen.
August 18, 20262 Minute Read
Citizens of God's Household
Focus Verse: Ephesians 2:19 "So then you are no longer strangers and aliens, but you are fellow citizens with the saints and members of the household of God." Think about what it means to belong somewhere. Not just to visit, not just to be tolerated, but to truly belong. That is what God declares over you through the Gospel. You are not a stranger passing through. You are a fellow citizen and a member of His household. That word "household" is intimate. It speaks of family dinners, shared responsibility, and the kind of relationships where people know your name and notice your absence. God is the Father and head of this household, and His family stretches across every continent, culture, and language. This means that a believer worshipping in Nicaragua and a believer sitting in your own pew have more in common with each other than either of them has with an unbelieving neighbor from their own hometown. The Gospel creates a kinship deeper than ethnicity, nationality, or tradition. You are not meant to wander through the Christian life as an isolated individual. You have been placed inside a family, and that family needs your presence, your contribution, and your commitment. Today's Challenge: Take a moment today to thank God specifically for one person in your local church whose life has reflected the family of God to you in a tangible way. Prayer: Father, I am grateful that You did not leave me as a stranger but brought me into Your household. Help me to live as a committed member of Your family, both locally and globally. Amen.
August 17, 20262 Minute Read
Broken Walls, One Family
Focus Verse: Ephesians 2:14 "For he himself is our peace, who has made us both one and has broken down in his flesh the dividing wall of hostility." There is something powerful about the image of a wall coming down. You have probably experienced walls in your own life - moments when cultural difference, political tension, or even church tradition created invisible barriers between you and someone else. Jesus did not come to manage those barriers or work around them. He came to destroy them entirely. The hostility that once separated Jew and Gentile was not merely cultural preference. It was deep, centuries-old division. And yet, in His body on the cross, Jesus made the two into one. That same reconciling power is available to every relationship marked by distance and suspicion today. The cross is not just your personal salvation story. It is the foundation of a new family that crosses every boundary the world insists must remain. When you look around your church, your neighborhood, or your city, ask yourself whether you are living as though that wall is still standing. Because Jesus already tore it down. Today's Challenge: Identify one person in your life who is meaningfully different from you - culturally, ethnically, or denominationally - and pray specifically for them by name today. Prayer: Father, I confess that I sometimes rebuild the walls You tore down. Remind me today that Christ is my peace and the peace of every believer, and help me live like that is true. Amen.
August 14, 20262 Minute Read
Keeping the Word Before You
Focus Verse: Deuteronomy 6:8-9 "You shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates." God understood something about human beings that we are sometimes slow to admit: we forget what we do not keep in front of us. The instructions in Deuteronomy were not meant to be read once and filed away. They were meant to be visible - on the body, on the door, woven into the architecture of daily life. The ancient Israelites developed physical reminders because the soul needs repeated exposure to what is true. You live in an era with more tools for this than any generation before you. A verse on your bathroom mirror costs nothing but a marker. A prayer printed from Ephesians 1 and taped to your car dashboard turns a commute into a conversation with God. A memory verse written on the refrigerator becomes something the whole family encounters multiple times a day. These are not decorations. They are declarations about what your household is built on and who holds it together. When your children grow up and leave your home, they will carry images with them. Make sure some of those images are the word of God on the walls, on the table, and on the lips of the people who loved them most. Today's Challenge: Place one verse or short prayer somewhere in your home today where your family will see it repeatedly - on the mirror, the refrigerator, the front door, or a car dashboard - and tell your family why you put it there. Prayer: Father, I want my home to be a place where your word is visible and your presence is felt. Help me to build an environment where faith is not confined to Sunday but is woven into every ordinary day. Let my family see that your word matters to me, and let that vision take root in them.
August 13, 20262 Minute Read
Starting Before You Feel Ready
Focus Verse: Proverbs 22:6 "Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it." Overthinking is the enemy of beginning. Many parents - including pastors - have spent years researching the perfect Bible, the right curriculum, the ideal method, and have ended up doing nothing because the search itself became the substitute for action. The desire to do it well is good, but when it prevents you from doing anything at all, it becomes its own kind of failure. John Wesley taught that if a child is old enough to speak, the child is old enough to begin learning about God - a little at a time, in language they can hold. He did not say wait until you have a complete plan. He said start with what a child can grasp: the sky, the sun, the person who made them and loves them. Small questions answered faithfully over years build a foundation that outlasts childhood. The catechism - simply a pattern of asking a question and hearing the answer repeated back - is one of the oldest and most effective tools in the church's history precisely because it is so simple. How many gods are there? One. Who made you? God made me. These are not shallow answers. They are seeds. Do not wait for the perfect resource. Start with what you have. Start tonight. Today's Challenge: Ask your child, grandchild, or a young person in your life one simple question about God today - something like "Who made you?" or "What do you think God is like?" - and listen to their answer without correcting or lecturing. Prayer: Father, I release the pressure of doing this perfectly. I ask you to take my imperfect effort and use it the way you used loaves and fish - to accomplish far more than I could manage on my own. Help me to start today.
August 12, 20268 Minute Read
Kids Discipleship
Honestly, even as a pastor, I struggled to disciple my kids because discipling from toddler to adult requires a different Bible for every new season of growth. So the question is, what is the best Bible for them at that stage, and there are so many choices? Then there is what you teach and what approach or method you use at each stage of life. Throughout the years, I have researched these questions many times. A few times I found things that were helpful; most of the time I became frustrated. Frustrated because there were so many choices and no clear answers or pathways I could follow. So I would put it aside and end up coming back to it again and again without ever really starting discipleship training with my kids. Yes, I overthink things. Yes, I do better with a clear plan laid out. Yes, I'm a pastor, and yes, I have struggled with this. Maybe you are facing the same challenges as me along with the same frustrations. You love your kids. You want them to grow up and learn to love God and love others. You want them to live for Jesus, experience His love, mercy, and grace, and ultimately spend eternity with Him. But you don’t know what Bible to buy, and you don’t know where to start. You don’t know what to teach or even what should be taught at the different stages of growth. So you put it off, and you put it off, and before you know it, they have grown up. But we can change things starting today because God designed the home to be the first and most powerful classroom of faith. I am working to put together a family resource of Bibles and catechism materials, articles, etc. In the meantime, here are a few resources that I hope you will find helpful. ✝️ Catechism 0–5 Years Old (Early Childhood & Preschool) At this stage, catechism focuses on foundational concepts of God’s love, creation, and grace through simple Q&A, songs, and storybooks rather than heavy memory work. The Kid's Catechism(Holy Joys / Wesleyan Tradition) Focus: Simplified Questions & Answers for ages 2–5. Highlights: Designed specifically as the entry level for young toddlers, answering essential questions about God, creation, and Jesus in short, memorable sentences (e.g., "Who made you? God made me."). Our Faith for Little Ones / Nazarene Early Childhood Discipleship Focus: Pre-K foundational truths of grace and God's love. Highlights: Uses story-based lessons and basic catechism questions emphasizing prevenient grace—the idea that God loves and pursues us even before we know Him. 6–9 Years Old (Early Elementary) In this age range, children are ready for structured Q&A formats that introduce core doctrines, the Ten Commandments, the Creed, and Wesleyan understandings of grace. The Young Disciples' Catechism(Holy Joys / Arminian-Wesleyan) Focus: 81 Questions & Weekly Memory Verses for ages 6–12. Highlights: Specifically crafted from a Wesleyan-Arminian framework. It structures catechism questions around God's character, salvation, holy living, and joyful obedience, making it ideal for family devotions or Sunday school. My Faith: A Catechism for Kids (Foundry Publishing / Church of the Nazarene) Focus: Interactive Student Workbook & Catechism Guide. Highlights: Covers essential Christian doctrines and the 16 Articles of Faith through engaging activity sheets, Q&A memory work, and age-appropriate discussions on sanctification and Christian living. Garden of Grace Curriculum (The KidMin Creatives) Focus: 16-Week Catechetical Teaching on the Articles of Faith. Highlights: Breaks down core Wesleyan beliefs (grace, repentance, holiness, the sacraments) using child-friendly illustrations, games, and weekly memory prompts. 7–12 Years Old (Older Elementary & Preteens) Preteens can handle deeper theological concepts, historical creeds, confirmation prep, and understanding the means of grace (prayer, Scripture, communion, baptism). A Catechism of Christian Faith and Doctrine(Seedbed / Global Methodist Church) Focus: 77 Questions and Answers on Historic & Wesleyan Beliefs. Highlights: Concise and robust catechism published by Seedbed.Designed for upper elementary, youth, and family grounding in the Apostles' Creed, Means of Grace, Articles of Religion, and the Lord's Prayer. Confirm / Wesleyan Confirmation & Catechism (Cokesbury / United Methodist / Global Methodist) Focus: Preteen Confirmation & Catechesis (Ages 10–12+). Highlights: A complete curriculum guiding preteens through the story of Scripture, Christian doctrine, Wesleyan history (John Wesley’s rule of life), and personal commitment to Christ. A Wesleyan Catechism (Ten Commandments, Articles of Religion, Lord's Prayer) Focus: Classical Wesleyan Q&A based on John Wesley's writings. Highlights: Focuses on the primary texts Wesley emphasized: the Ten Commandments (duty to God and neighbor), the Apostles' Creed, the Lord's Prayer, and the Sacraments. High-level preteens (ages 10–12) can study these alongside parent/teacher guides. 13+ Years Old (Teens & Young Adults) A Catechism of Christian Faith and Doctrine(Seedbed / Global Methodist / Wesleyan) Focus: 77 Questions and Answers on Core & Wesleyan Doctrine Highlights: Concise yet doctrinally rich, this guide works exceptionally well for teens. It covers the Apostles' Creed, the Lord’s Prayer, the Ten Commandments, and the Wesleyan understanding of grace (prevenient, justifying, and sanctifying). Absolute Basics of the Wesleyan Way (Seedbed - Phil Tallon & Justus Hunter) Focus: Interactive Teen & Student Catechism Course Highlights: Designed specifically for youth and young adults, this small-group and individual guide uses videos, short readings, and Q&A formats to break down core Christian beliefs through a distinctly Wesleyan lens. The Class Meeting / Small Group Discipleship Guides (Kevin M. Watson) Focus: Wesleyan Small Group Discipleship & Accountability Highlights: Moves beyond simple Q&A head-knowledge into heart transformation. Grounded in John Wesley's classic "class meetings," it helps teens learn how to watch over one another in love and track where God is working in their daily lives. 📖 Recommended Bibles 0–5 Years Old (Early Childhood & Preschool) At this stage, children benefit most from storybook and devotional Bibles that present essential themes through clear visuals and short, simple narratives. My First Hands-On Bible(NLT) Format: Storybook / Activity Bible Highlights: Designed specifically for ages 3–6, this book uses simplified NLT text alongside interactive prompts (hand motions, questions, simple crafts) that engage energetic toddlers and preschoolers during reading. The Jesus Storybook Bible(Storybook) Format: Illustrated Storybook Bible Highlights: While not a word-for-word translation, it is published alongside standard NIV/NLT resources as a primary recommendation for preschoolers. It focuses on how every story throughout the Old and New Testaments points to Jesus. NIV Little Kids' Big Story Bible(NIV) Format: Storybook Bible Highlights: Features short, simple retellings of 30+ key stories using easy-to-understand language and vibrant artwork crafted specifically to keep young attention spans engaged. 6–9 Years Old (Early Elementary & Early Readers) Children in this group are transitioning into independent reading and can begin moving from storybooks to full-text Bibles with engaging supplemental features. Hands-On Bible(NLT) Format: Full-Text Activity Bible Highlights: Uses the full NLT text packed with graphics, fun facts, "do-it" activities, science experiments, and crafts that help kinesthetic learners understand and apply biblical concepts. NIV Adventure Bible(NIV) (One of my favorites) Format: Full-Text Study Bible Highlights: Widely considered the gold standard for elementary-aged readers. It includes full-color feature pages like Life in Bible Times, Words to Treasure (for verse memory), and People in Bible Times profiles. NIV Boys/Girls Big Dreams, Big Prayers Bible(NIV) Format: Devotional / Full-Text Bible Highlights: Combines the complete NIV Scripture text with short daily devotions and prayer prompts that help early readers begin developing a daily Bible-reading habit. 7–12 Years Old (Older Elementary & Preteens) Preteens benefit from study tools that answer deeper questions, provide historical context, and foster personal reflection. NIV Kids' Visual Study Bible(NIV) Format: Illustrated Study Bible Highlights: Ideal for visual learners, this full-text NIV Bible is loaded with over 700 infographics, photos, maps, and study notes directly alongside the verses. NLT Student Life Application Study Bible(NLT) Format: Full-Text Study Bible Highlights: A great bridge for upper-elementary kids and preteens (ages 10+) stepping into deeper study. It provides application notes, character profiles, and real-world Q&As grounded in the accessible NLT text. NIV Investigator's Holy Bible(NIV) Format: Full-Text Interactive Study Bible Highlights: Uses a detective-and-discovery theme with "evidence files," Q&As, and background context to help preteens explore the historical truth of the Bible for themselves. Beautiful Word Coloring Bible for Girls (NIV, Leathersoft, Teal) Focus: Creative Engagement & Scripture Memorization through Visual Art for Preteens (Ages 8–12). Highlights: Combines the full NIV text with over 500 ready-to-color verse illustrations, thick white paper, and wide margins, encouraging girls to reflect on and memorize God's Word through art. 13+ Years Old (Teens & Young Adults) NLT Teen Life Application Study Bible(NLT) Format: Full-Text Teen Study Bible Highlights: Widely recognized as one of the best life-application Bibles for teenagers. It dives deep into real-world issues (mental health, peer pressure, identity, relationships) while offering clear verse-by-verse commentary grounded in the accessible NLT translation. NIV Student Bible(NIV) Format: Full-Text Guided Study Bible Highlights: Edited by Philip Yancey and Tim Stafford, this Bible includes the 3-Track Reading Plan, book introductions, "Highlights" that explain tricky passages, and historical backgrounds designed to build independent, lifelong study habits. The Jesus Bible(NIV) Format: Theological / Devotional Study Bible Highlights: Excellent for high schoolers and college students looking for deep narrative study. It features extensive essays, study notes, and journaling margins that reveal how Christ is woven throughout both the Old and New Testaments. Article with Graphic for Each Age Group Practical Ways to Teach Your Children about God at Every Age,” Woman of Noble Character, May 1, 2019. Download the article here.
July 13, 20262 Minute Read
Family Fun Day
Summer is Here 😎 Family Fun Day is coming up on Sunday, July 26th and we could not be more excited! Get ready for an exciting Sunday together! Bring a friend and join us as we kick off our brand new family series “Family Life” during the 11:00 AM service.... The fun doesn’t stop there! Stick around right after for an awesome time of food, fellowship, and fun in the water for everyone! Don’t forget your towel!👌 Bring your favorite potluck dish to share 🌭, we can’t wait to enjoy it together! **There will be a sign up sheet located at the Guest Services table. ** Our Sunday Kids Church curriculum kicks off with a brand new 8-week series, “Back-to-School Survival Guide.” The kids will learn how to make this school year the best ever as they see how to listen and hold on to instruction. “I also want to spotlight 🤩 our incredible Hope Kidz team, who have faithfully served Sunday after Sunday! Thank you for making disciples… who make disciples in Hope Kidz!” - Pastor Eric Do you have a passion for kids and a heart for helping them grow in their faith? Do you enjoy teaching children about Jesus and making disciples? Hope Kidz would love to have you join our team! If you're interested in serving or would like to learn more, please reach out to Valerie for additional information.Sign up to join Hope Kidz Coming up 🔔
August 19, 20262 Minute Read
Unity Is Where Blessing Lives
Focus Verse: Psalm 133:1 "Behold, how good and pleasant it is when brothers dwell in unity!" Unity is not just a nice idea. According to Psalm 133, it is the place where God commands His blessing. That word "commands" is striking. God does not merely offer blessing where there is unity. He directs it there. This means division is not just relationally painful. It is spiritually costly. When the enemy works to keep believers fighting over denominations, political loyalties, and racial identities, he is working to cut off the flow of what God intended to pour out. You have likely felt the weight of division in your lifetime. Perhaps it was a church split, a falling out between believers, or the slow drift of relationships that once felt strong. Division leaves a hollow feeling because it is working against the very design of God for His people. But unity, even when it is hard-won, produces something different. It produces an atmosphere where God shows up and where people notice. The world is watching the church, and one of the most compelling testimonies you can offer a divided culture is the sight of people who have every reason to be separated choosing to remain together under the cross. Today's Challenge: Ask God to show you one area of your heart where division has taken root - whether toward a person, a denomination, or a culture - and surrender that specific thing to Him today. Prayer: Father, I confess that I have sometimes valued being right over being unified. Teach me to prize what You prize, and let my life be a place where Your blessing flows freely. Amen.
August 18, 20262 Minute Read
Citizens of God's Household
Focus Verse: Ephesians 2:19 "So then you are no longer strangers and aliens, but you are fellow citizens with the saints and members of the household of God." Think about what it means to belong somewhere. Not just to visit, not just to be tolerated, but to truly belong. That is what God declares over you through the Gospel. You are not a stranger passing through. You are a fellow citizen and a member of His household. That word "household" is intimate. It speaks of family dinners, shared responsibility, and the kind of relationships where people know your name and notice your absence. God is the Father and head of this household, and His family stretches across every continent, culture, and language. This means that a believer worshipping in Nicaragua and a believer sitting in your own pew have more in common with each other than either of them has with an unbelieving neighbor from their own hometown. The Gospel creates a kinship deeper than ethnicity, nationality, or tradition. You are not meant to wander through the Christian life as an isolated individual. You have been placed inside a family, and that family needs your presence, your contribution, and your commitment. Today's Challenge: Take a moment today to thank God specifically for one person in your local church whose life has reflected the family of God to you in a tangible way. Prayer: Father, I am grateful that You did not leave me as a stranger but brought me into Your household. Help me to live as a committed member of Your family, both locally and globally. Amen.
August 17, 20262 Minute Read
Broken Walls, One Family
Focus Verse: Ephesians 2:14 "For he himself is our peace, who has made us both one and has broken down in his flesh the dividing wall of hostility." There is something powerful about the image of a wall coming down. You have probably experienced walls in your own life - moments when cultural difference, political tension, or even church tradition created invisible barriers between you and someone else. Jesus did not come to manage those barriers or work around them. He came to destroy them entirely. The hostility that once separated Jew and Gentile was not merely cultural preference. It was deep, centuries-old division. And yet, in His body on the cross, Jesus made the two into one. That same reconciling power is available to every relationship marked by distance and suspicion today. The cross is not just your personal salvation story. It is the foundation of a new family that crosses every boundary the world insists must remain. When you look around your church, your neighborhood, or your city, ask yourself whether you are living as though that wall is still standing. Because Jesus already tore it down. Today's Challenge: Identify one person in your life who is meaningfully different from you - culturally, ethnically, or denominationally - and pray specifically for them by name today. Prayer: Father, I confess that I sometimes rebuild the walls You tore down. Remind me today that Christ is my peace and the peace of every believer, and help me live like that is true. Amen.
August 14, 20262 Minute Read
Keeping the Word Before You
Focus Verse: Deuteronomy 6:8-9 "You shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates." God understood something about human beings that we are sometimes slow to admit: we forget what we do not keep in front of us. The instructions in Deuteronomy were not meant to be read once and filed away. They were meant to be visible - on the body, on the door, woven into the architecture of daily life. The ancient Israelites developed physical reminders because the soul needs repeated exposure to what is true. You live in an era with more tools for this than any generation before you. A verse on your bathroom mirror costs nothing but a marker. A prayer printed from Ephesians 1 and taped to your car dashboard turns a commute into a conversation with God. A memory verse written on the refrigerator becomes something the whole family encounters multiple times a day. These are not decorations. They are declarations about what your household is built on and who holds it together. When your children grow up and leave your home, they will carry images with them. Make sure some of those images are the word of God on the walls, on the table, and on the lips of the people who loved them most. Today's Challenge: Place one verse or short prayer somewhere in your home today where your family will see it repeatedly - on the mirror, the refrigerator, the front door, or a car dashboard - and tell your family why you put it there. Prayer: Father, I want my home to be a place where your word is visible and your presence is felt. Help me to build an environment where faith is not confined to Sunday but is woven into every ordinary day. Let my family see that your word matters to me, and let that vision take root in them.
August 13, 20262 Minute Read
Starting Before You Feel Ready
Focus Verse: Proverbs 22:6 "Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it." Overthinking is the enemy of beginning. Many parents - including pastors - have spent years researching the perfect Bible, the right curriculum, the ideal method, and have ended up doing nothing because the search itself became the substitute for action. The desire to do it well is good, but when it prevents you from doing anything at all, it becomes its own kind of failure. John Wesley taught that if a child is old enough to speak, the child is old enough to begin learning about God - a little at a time, in language they can hold. He did not say wait until you have a complete plan. He said start with what a child can grasp: the sky, the sun, the person who made them and loves them. Small questions answered faithfully over years build a foundation that outlasts childhood. The catechism - simply a pattern of asking a question and hearing the answer repeated back - is one of the oldest and most effective tools in the church's history precisely because it is so simple. How many gods are there? One. Who made you? God made me. These are not shallow answers. They are seeds. Do not wait for the perfect resource. Start with what you have. Start tonight. Today's Challenge: Ask your child, grandchild, or a young person in your life one simple question about God today - something like "Who made you?" or "What do you think God is like?" - and listen to their answer without correcting or lecturing. Prayer: Father, I release the pressure of doing this perfectly. I ask you to take my imperfect effort and use it the way you used loaves and fish - to accomplish far more than I could manage on my own. Help me to start today.
August 12, 20262 Minute Read
The Face of God Your Child Needs
Focus Verse: Psalm 23:1 "The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want." One of the most freeing insights a parent can receive is this: you do not have to teach your child everything about God all at once. God is love, and love has many faces. The image of God that resonates with a four-year-old who needs safety and comfort is different from the image that speaks to a teenager navigating relationships for the first time. Matching the face of God to the need of your child at a given stage is not watering down the faith - it is wisdom. A young child who is anxious or afraid does not need a lecture on systematic theology. That child needs to hear about the Good Shepherd who knows his sheep by name, who searches for the one who is lost, and who lays down his life for those in his care. That image - concrete, warm, and full of protection - lands in a young heart in ways that abstract doctrine cannot. As children grow and their questions deepen, other faces of God become available to them: the True Vine who sustains them when sin threatens to cut them off, the Bridegroom whose love is faithful and covenant-bound. Watch your child. Pray and ask God which face of his love they need to see right now. Today's Challenge: Think about the child or young person closest to you. Identify one need they are carrying this week - a fear, a question, a longing - and find one image of God from Scripture that speaks directly to that need. Prayer: Father, I ask for wisdom to see my child the way you see them. Show me which face of your love they need most right now, and give me the words to present you in a way that reaches their heart.
August 11, 20262 Minute Read
Hearing That Leads to Obeying
Focus Verse: Luke 6:46 "Why do you call me 'Lord, Lord,' and do not do what I say?" There is a difference between hearing words and truly receiving them. In ancient Hebrew culture, to hear God's word was to obey it - the two actions were inseparable. You could not claim to have heard something you refused to act upon. That understanding cuts straight through the comfortable distance many of us keep between what we know and how we live. Jesus pressed this same point. He did not ask why people failed to call him Lord. He asked why they called him Lord but then lived as though he were not. The title without the surrender is an empty sound. This applies to every area of life, but it lands with particular weight when it comes to raising children. You can know every verse in Deuteronomy 6 and still never sit down with your child and open a Bible together. Knowledge without action is not really knowledge at all, not in the Hebrew sense, and not in Jesus's sense either. The good news is that the gap between knowing and doing can be closed today. One small act of obedience is worth more than years of intention. Today's Challenge: Ask yourself honestly: is there one thing God has already shown you about discipling the people in your home that you have heard but not yet done? Write it down and take one step toward it before the day ends. Prayer: Father, I do not want to be someone who calls you Lord only with words. I ask you to move what I know from my head into my hands and feet. Give me the courage to do the thing I have been putting off.
August 10, 20262 Minute Read
The Home as Holy Ground
Focus Verse: Deuteronomy 6:6-7 "These words that I am commanding you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your sons and shall talk of them when you sit in your house and when you walk by the way and when you lie down and when you rise up." You may not think of your kitchen table or your morning commute as sacred space, but God does. Long before Israel had temples and priests, God handed parents a commission: make the ordinary moments of daily life into classrooms of faith. The breakfast table, the car ride to school, the quiet moment before lights go out - these are not interruptions to spiritual formation; they are the primary location of it. This is not a calling reserved for pastors or Sunday school teachers. It is yours. God placed those children in your home precisely because you are the right person for this mission. The word translated "diligently" carries the sense of sharpening, of pressing something in with intention. God is not asking for occasional conversations about faith. He is describing a way of life where his word saturates everything. You do not need to be a theologian to begin. You simply need to begin. Today's Challenge: Identify one ordinary moment in your daily routine - a car ride, a meal, a bedtime - and decide right now that starting today it will include one sentence of Scripture or one question about God. Prayer: Father, I confess I have let ordinary moments pass without pointing my family toward you. I ask you to open my eyes to the sacred opportunities already built into my day. Help me to start today, not tomorrow.
August 3, 20262 Minute Read
Contentment Before the Ring
Focus Verse: Matthew 6:33 "But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you." There is a quiet anxiety that settles into a single person's life when the world keeps asking, "So when are you getting married?" Maybe you have felt it — the low hum of pressure that makes you wonder if your life is somehow on hold until another person arrives. The Apostle Paul saw this same tendency in the Corinthians, and his counsel was simple and countercultural: cultivate contentment right where you are. Contentment is not resignation. It is not pretending that longing does not exist. It is the decision to stop putting your spiritual life on pause while waiting for circumstances to change. Paul observed something remarkable — that many people who stopped making a mate their consuming pursuit and instead poured themselves into knowing God and serving his kingdom found that God had a way of ordering everything else in their lives. Seek the kingdom first. That is not a spiritual platitude; it is a sequence with a promise attached to it. Today's Challenge: Write down one way you have been waiting for a different season of life before fully investing in your relationship with God, and then take one concrete step today to invest now instead. Prayer: Father, I confess that I sometimes treat contentment as something I will feel once my circumstances change. Teach me to seek your kingdom as my first priority today, not someday. I trust that you hold everything else in your hands.
August 3, 20262 Minute Read
Guarding Against Worldly Distraction
Focus Verse: 1 Corinthians 7:31 "And those who deal with the world as though they had no dealings with it. For the present form of this world is passing away." Paul's words in 1 Corinthians 7 are not only addressed to single people. He is speaking to everyone about the danger of letting temporal concerns crowd out eternal ones. He describes people who weep, rejoice, buy, and use the things of the world — and his point is not that those activities are wrong, but that none of them should be allowed to consume you, because this world in its current form is passing away. Think about how much of your mental and emotional energy is occupied each day by things that will not last. A news cycle, a financial worry, a social comparison, a scroll through a screen that leaves you more anxious than when you started. Paul is not asking you to disengage from life. He is asking you to hold the things of this world loosely, with open hands, while keeping your grip firm on what is eternal. Whether you are single and tempted to let loneliness drive you toward distraction, or married and tempted to let the busyness of family life quietly push God to the margins, the call is the same. Refocus on what endures. Your devotion to the Lord is not a category of your life — it is the center from which every other category draws its meaning. Today's Challenge: Identify one habit of consuming news, social media, or entertainment that has been feeding anxiety rather than faith, and replace thirty minutes of that habit today with prayer, Scripture, or worship music. Prayer: Father, I acknowledge that I have let the worries of this world take up more space than they deserve. Reorder my attention today. Help me hold temporal things loosely and invest my energy in what will last forever.
August 3, 20262 Minute Read
Singleness Is a Gift, Not a Gap
Focus Verse: 1 Corinthians 7:32 "I want you to be free from anxieties. The unmarried man is anxious about the things of the Lord, how to please the Lord." It is possible to sit in a church service and feel invisible. If you are single, you may have experienced exactly that — the assumption that your real life begins at the altar, that you are simply in a waiting room until marriage makes you complete. Paul dismantles that assumption entirely. He does not describe singleness as an incomplete state. He describes it as a season with a particular kind of freedom and focus. When you do not have a spouse or children depending on you, you carry fewer of the divided interests that come with family life. That is not a consolation prize. It is a genuine gift. The freedom you have right now to give your full attention to the things of the Lord — to serve without negotiating a family calendar, to respond to a need without asking how it affects a household — is something a married person may actually envy. Paul is not putting marriage down. He is lifting singleness up to its proper dignity. You are not less whole because you are single. You are not a smaller part of the body of Christ. You are someone with a unique capacity for undivided devotion, and that capacity matters deeply to God and to his church. Today's Challenge: Identify one ministry opportunity, community need, or act of service that your current season of life actually makes easier to pursue, and take a step toward it this week. Prayer: Father, I receive my current season as a gift from your hand, even when it does not feel like one. Show me the specific ways you want to use my time and freedom for your kingdom right now. I want to live fully today, not just wait for tomorrow.
August 3, 20262 Minute Read
Marriage Calls for Selfless Focus
Focus Verse: 1 Corinthians 7:33-34 "But the married man is anxious about worldly things, how to please his wife, and his interests are divided. And the unmarried or betrothed woman is anxious about the things of the Lord, how to be holy in body and spirit. But the married woman is anxious about worldly things, how to please her husband." Paul makes a statement in this passage that is easy to miss because it is tucked inside a larger argument about singleness and marriage. He says the married man's concern should be how to please his wife, and the married woman's concern should be how to please her husband. That is not a throwaway line. In a culture that tells everyone to put their own needs first, this is a revolutionary instruction. Marriage in God's design is not primarily about having your needs met. It is about becoming the kind of person who is genuinely occupied with meeting someone else's needs. When both people in a marriage are oriented this way — each one asking what the other needs rather than cataloguing what they themselves are not receiving — something remarkable happens. Resentment loses its foothold. Bitterness does not get the room it needs to grow. This principle applies whether you are newly married or have been married for decades. The question is not whether your spouse is meeting your needs. The question Paul presses you toward is this: are you genuinely concerned about theirs? Today's Challenge: If you are married, spend five minutes today thinking carefully and specifically about one practical way you can please or serve your spouse, and then do it without announcing that you are doing it. Prayer: Father, forgive me for the moments when I have entered my marriage focused on what I am receiving rather than what I am giving. Soften my heart toward my spouse today. Make me someone who is genuinely concerned with their flourishing.